In the past three months, our kids have raked up the leaves in a nearby park, crafted feathery turkeys, and made Christmas ornaments. More importantly to me, they’re learning how to play together! This is my son’s main source of interaction with other kids, so it’s good experience for him to start learning (slowly, very slowly) how to share. The big kids are just dazzling to him, and he wants to do everything that they do . . . even if it means riding on a big boy’s back in order to participate. Everett, one of the older boys, has been especially caring with the little ones, and played peekaboo with them in the tunnel in the romper room (and didn’t even seem to mind that one of the toddlers was crawling slowly through it).
Our monthly seminars have been pretty interesting. Besides housekeeping tasks like voting on a budget and talking about fundraisers, we’ve learned about making environmentally friendly cleaning products, and two parents did a really informative presentation about different methods of saving for college. (Also: we have really good treats at these meetings. Especially the maple cookies we had the first month!) We missed the Halloween party but are looking forward to the upcoming holiday gathering, where Santa will pass out books to the kids.
Here’s a peek at some of our fun. (Click on one of the photos for a gallery to open.)
Our first day of co-op was pretty fun. To start, we all sat on the carpet and introduced ourselves, then sang songs like “The Wheels on the Bus” and “Mary Had a Little Lamb.” Next was either some play time or an activity (the activity involved sitting at a table and using paint–too much for a ten month old–so my son played with the fantastic front door shown here). There are three little ones around twelve months old, plus six other kids whose ages range from two to four. Our day has mostly moms, but one grandma comes every other week, and there are dads who come on other days.
The two little PEPS kiddos were able to sit in the little chairs and have most of the snack with their new buddies. Remy’s not the neatest drinker, but it’s good experience for him to be around big kids and see how they behaved.
The second half of our class was in the romper room! The kids raced around, jumping on the inner tube, crawling through a tunnel, and climbing up the ladder for the slide.
At the end of our time, we sang the good-bye song and high-fived Teacher Gail. My son fell asleep in the car within about thirty seconds–an amazing, stimulating morning had worn him out!
I started in PEPS (Program for Early Parenting Support, for infants up to ten months old) in January of this year, when my son, Remy, was two months old. There were two other baby boys in the group then, but by the time August rolled around, our group had grown to five little boys and two girls.
Each week, we discussed what was new with our babies and any problems that we were having. Of course, sleep was a pretty popular topic for quite a while, but eventually (finally!) the conversations moved to what everyone was eating–when we could move on from steamed zucchini to crackers and why yogurt was ok but milk was not. (PEPS has served as quite the brain trust.) We also sang a lot of songs–Teacher Gail made me do a solo on our first day, which I’m sure was memorable for everyone–and recited nursery rhymes.
PEPS made what could have been a cold, lonely winter into one with friends. Gail passed out articles on child development with us about every other week, and we did activities like making Valentines with our babies’ foot- and handprints, bringing our favorite books, and playing with the parachute. We celebrated every tiny milestone, from Henry saying ‘Daddy’ on his very first Fathers Day to Davis’s going to the beach and Barrett swimming underwater. One day, Davis popped up onto his knees to crawl for the first time, and Remy did it the exact same way the very next day–he must have learned from Davis’s example! It was so remarkable to see how the boys changed–now they’re piling on each other, trying to ride each other like horses, and charging after the best toys.
Now the babies have grown up and are official members of the co-op! I’ll be writing posts every month or so about what we’ve been up to.